How to deal with haters
Here’s the cold, hard truth. The more successful you are, the more haters you will have. It doesn’t matter, how good you are, how much good you are putting into this world … some people will just hate your guts. Of course, you are a bad person, it is normal to have a bunch of haters but being successful expect at least 2% of your tribe to simply hate you. And, it’s ok, you have to live with it, and get the most out of it!
Tony Robbins, who is my favorite coach told the audience in one of his events: “There are two ways to build the tallest building in town. The first way is to go out there and put a lot of sweat and effort and all of this stuff into something and build the tallest building in town. The second way is to go around to everybody else’s buildings and knock them down, and that way you’re the tallest one.” In fact … if you don’t have any haters, maybe it is because you are playing too small.
The more you do, the more you develop yourself, and your projects, the haters will come to try their best in hunting you down.
The more visibility you get, the more people will be against you. And this is actually a good thing. Usually, these people are full of frustrations, and instead of working on themselves, they just want to tear other people down. By doing this, they will feel much better about themselves. Can you believe this?
